I’ve written and rewritten this post, as I’m not sure how to get across how I’m feeling and what I want to say, I’m sorry if I upset anyone
my brother had Primary Progressive MS, he took his life in August, and I’ve struggled since then that day, I’ve got some much anger i don’t know what to do or why im feeling this way
i think about him every day, look at photo’s of him, play his favo music also,
My brother was a very private person and wouldn’t tell us much about how he was feeling or had bad he was getting i could only see it, and im trying to understand how he might have felt or his feelings towards MS
he went downhill rapidly over the 2 years he had MS and couldnt take it anymore.
Hello there, I’m so sorry to hear of your loss and the pain you’re going through. Have you managed to talk to anyone about how you’re feeling? AtaLoss.org are there How to get free professional grief support online If you can, reach out for help. Take care
I am so sorry for your loss.Any death is hard but suicide is on another level for the loved ones left to cope.I would ring your Dr and tell them how you feel.I think some counselling would really help you as this is a lot for anyone to deal with alone.One of my good friends had a son that did the same and i saw how hard it was for her.I really hope you get some support with this.You could google to see what help there is locally for you.In my town there are a few support groups that advertise on facebook.You can have one to one counselling too if you don’t want to go to a group.Maybe ring social services too they might point you in the right direction or maybe even ring the samaritans.Good luck there is help out there even tho it can be a pain trying to find it.
This is a terrible thing to try to cope with. If only your dear brother had spoken to someone, or maybe even come here.
I dont know if we could have helped him, but we would have tried.
So now we need to help you. It is still such a short time since it happened and you do need to speak to your GP. There are bereavment counsellors who could help you, I hope.
Please dont worry about having upset anyone here…you havent…we are more concerned about you.
I’m sorry to hear about your brother. I have no further suggestions either. I just wanted to let you know that I read your post and like the others here offer my condolences. Any loss is difficult to cope with without support, but I can only imagine the added pain and anger a suicide would cause. Please seek help.
Your brother must have been in a very dark place emotionally and could probably just not seen any other way out. I doubt there was anything or anyone who could have stopped him once his mind was made up. It’s nobody’s fault.