I'm new to the forum and I need your help. My husband has MS, diagnosed 15 years ago with no progression. He is injecting every other day, seeing his neurologist once a year and doing twice a year blood tests. Other than that, we are very very lucky, coz there are no symptoms, apart from some mental fogginess and memory issues (he is 45y).
In general, he feels OK but from time to time, he has these moods which last for weeks. He feels constantly angry with me, what I do, my work, my friends, everything. Being a calm person who has difficulties showing his anger, I completely get it that he somehow has to express it.
He used to do psychotherapy for 5-6 years, then stopped, started again and he is on and off for about 7 years. The thing is that he doesn't like any therapist. They all have something bad, one of them is slow, the other one is stupid, the other one can't get him etc.
When I come closer to him, he pushes me away or he ignores me as if he wishes to be alone to punish himself for something. When I leave him alone, going out with my friends or going on with my work, hobbies etc. he seems to feel annoyed.
I don't know what to do. It seems that he doesn't like anything. He only wants to sit alone, read books, watch netflix as if i don't exist because as he believes for me "I'm OK, I'm the normal one, I have normal friends etc,".
I know he feels that he is losing me when I go out, when I work long hours, when I see a close friend, but on the other side, he seems to ignore me.
I really care about him and I believe he genuinely cares about me.
Is there any advice you can give me? I want to help him.